The strongest people find the courage and caring to help others,
even if they are going through their own storm.
It is that time of year when we think deeply about others and about ourselves. We think of others, especially is they are close to us the rest of the year, but the end of the year brings us and our place in the world to the forefront of our minds.
Holidays tend to “demand” some type of gift giving or faux “quality time” with people with whom we don’t often (want to) spend extended time, some of our bosses, a few of our co-workers, and extended family. And, even for those we do interact with, because of the unique demands of the season, we begin to recognize that many are facing tough times.
Thinking of others facing hard times brings us closer to others.
When we are able, we need to embrace the opportunity to lend a helping hand to another person. It is often easier to say yes when people reach out during difficult situations.
When someone runs across our minds, we should take it seriously. It means that a sixth sense is alerting us about the person who is crying out for help.
When someone unexpectedly enters my mind, at the very least I reach out to call or text them. And we are not speaking only of financial needs. Often people just need a spark of kindness, a quick thanks for something they have done for us, or just to be in the presence of another human being who understands what they are going through or will take the time to listen. The connection that active thinking creates pushes me to reach out and find out how I can relieve a bit of their distress. I feel a sense of loyalty whenever someone connects with me on this spiritual level.
Spending time actively thinking about others allows us to feel oneness with them. We become invested in each other’s lives.
Our empathy strengthens the more we reach out to others facing challenges. The more we do it, the more natural it becomes to show compassion when we open ourselves up to tough situations that others are going through.
Today, consider the circumstances of each person you encounter. Doing this makes it easy to identify when someone yearns for our support.
Be willing to be that person that others feel free to call on.
Note:
This is also the time of year we reflect on the past year(s) and begin to think about what we may want to let go of and what we may wish to do differently going forward. Some people mark this with NewYear’s Resolutuins, while may others choose a word or theme to carry them through.
This past 18 months with the pandemics, lockdowns and the Great Resignation has demononstrated that the world is changing. What will you change? Please share in the chat.
Talk soon.
